My wife and I started on this cuckolding journey just this year. We have made a TON of progress in discovering what we like, what we don't, what we want, and we have figured all of that out together. She has slept with two other men with larger cocks in the past 6 months. We are quite careful around STIs and have gotten tested, and had partners get tested as well. This was my wife's first trip to the gynecologist since we "entered the lifestyle."
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She and I had talked about how she should really tell her doctor something to the tune of, "We are considering opening up our relationship to include a third and want to do it responsibly and safely." Something that includes the necessary information (new partners) without going into too much detail. We even brainstormed language she could use with the doctor, as it was a new doctor to the practice.
When the appointment was over, she texted me and said that the doctor visit went very well. The actual text exchange was:
Wife: "Done. Told her. She loved it lol."
Me: "Loved it?"
Wife: "Totally supportive, didn't put it in the chart, said I can message her for whatever I need."
We didn't discuss it again until later that afternoon when I was home from work, and she was home and making dinner for the family. The kids were outside playing, so I asked her about the visit. What she replied with floored me. she said:
"I really like my new doctor. She is great. Maybe 55 years old, black woman. (my wife is blonde and 40) I just told her right off the bat. I told her I wanted to get tested because we were opening up our relationship. She asked if I meant physically…, and I just told her, "My husband has apparently had this cuckold fantasy his whole life – I'm just finding out about it. But, he really likes to watch me sleep with other men. So we have started to explore that."
At this point, mind you, I'm chuckling because I think she is messing with me. "Very funny… what really happened?" I said. She froze – "What do you mean. that's what really happened… wait, did I do something wrong? Was I not supposed to say that?"
I of course re-assured her that I was not upset, rather incredibly turned on by her candor with her doctor. Given its a private space, and I'll never meet this doctor, its very low risk. But the thought of my wife sitting with this older woman, explaining her husband is a cuckold, in those terms, and that she sleeps with other men stung so good.
Anyway – my wife feels seen, heard, validated, and supported. The doctor was incredibly encouraging with the spirit of 'ya only live once." I feel humiliated, even from afar, knowing the image this doctor has in her mind of my wife's husband is one of a cuckold who encourages other men into the love of his life. It really is the little things. Cheers!