Bad experience sharing wife

Have shared my wife a few times before. Recently we had a bad experience with a guy we met. He was charming and good looking but turned out to be a bit of a jerk. My wife was sucking his dick and he was being a little aggressive and forcing it in her mouth and grabbing her head. She kept telling him to relax and enjoy it. He was trying to just fuck her mouth as hard as possible. When it was time to fuck her he made a big deal about wearing a condom. We didn’t know him so we wanted to be safe. He was a little on bigger size so my wife had some trouble taking him at first. He wasn’t too gentle and forced it in. While he was fucking her from behind he was playing with her asshole and asked about fucking her ass. She declined politely and said not this time. He was upset and made a big deal about it. Then he started to fuck her harder and pretty rough. He eventually pulled out and shot. Load on her face and forced her to lick him clean. Afterwards she said it’s a shame he was such a jerk because his cock was pretty good lol