Our cuckolding journey began with my wife’s affair. She chose a good friend of ours and ran around with him for about three or four months.
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About this was eye-opening shocking and very difficult to deal with. We had long been into toys and stretching. Our plane included lots of discussion of other men and even friends of ours being involved in fantasy sexual situations. we’ve been married for years and playing like this for a very, very long time.
I had a feeling something was up and I found out about the affair in a very shocking and unexpected way. When I confronted her about it, I was under the impression. She was going to tell me that they hung out and kissed a little bit and maybe hugged and held each other. But they went all the way multiple times there is multiple occasions of oral to finishing where she swallowed him. She allowed him to have sex with her unprotected bc she trusted him.
Hearing the words come out of her mouth that she willingly went down on him multiple times in a car on the side of the road, and that she swallowed him willingly was so difficult to accept as a married man who loves his wife so much. I made mistakes that let us to this place, but I don’t deserved this.
Before I found out she cheated, we were distanced from one another, and as part of my own kink, I started caging myself, imagining that one day I might be able to kneel down in front of her and explain that I’d like to serve her.
I had no idea she was actually out there doing it.
There are a lot of fake stories on here and there are a lot of fantasy. Very few of us know what actually happens and what it feels like when this fantasy becomes a reality. Put it into perspective, and went to the gynecologist with her and held her hand as she got STD tests for having unprotected sex. to look at the doctor, admit to the doctor that she had another sexual partner with me in the room with one of the most humiliating things I’ve ever been through.
That was a couple years ago. we’ve healed our relationship done our work and therapy. We’ve come around to me being caged at my desire and with her support. When we have sex, she’s always talking about the other guys that she wants and commenting on the of my cock because it gets less and less hard the more being in a cage.
I let her know a little bit of humiliation is a turn on and she’s taking that tool level that I didn’t imagine it would go to including derogatory words, rolling her eyes during sex and telling me that she can’t feel a thing.
This morning during sex she told me she was gonna start going out on her own and initiating intimacy with any man that she was attracted to. When I asked if I would be able to reclaim her or have sex with her afterwards, she said it depends on the quality of the sex that she has with the guy. She said it’s really good. She’s not gonna want me. And that It’s going to be my job to support her and wave for her to come home. She said that if the sex is mediocre and then she feels like she wants to keep going and needs to finish differently, but I’ll have an opportunity. No matter what I’ll be allowed to be caged and I’ll be allowed to finger my click cage when she gets home while she’s away.
I find myself struggling with the reality of this situation and me liking it so much. It actually turned me on to think about not being able to have sex with her afterwards. Not sure where this is going. Would love to hear from some shared experiences from anyone who sounds similar.