My husband and I temporarily hit a kind of slow period in this lifestyle especially with finding the time and freedom for a new partner especially by the end of 2024. The great part was it allowed for us to kind of recheck and think about what we wanted the new year to be like. We admitted that our best experiences came to us instead of us pursuing them (hopefully that makes sense) and we decided that when the right opportunity came, we would know! So to satisfy the urge, we just fucked each other like rabbits for the rest of 2024. Now that isn't to say we didn't fantasize internally about this lifestyle at all, we absolutely put that into our sex life but it was fun to just not have to plan everything out perfectly to balance our open relationship and our personal/family lives. We could live with a little more improvisation!
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Hopefully nobody hates the background too much but I hope it explains a bit more on my mentality going into this! Anyways, with the holidays coming into town, we found that we were finding a lot more balance with our family lives. With family in town and my husband having time off, it meant we were able to find some more time to see friends that we normally wouldn't see and to enjoy new opportunities.
I have a friend, Denise, who loves a night of trivia and she has consistently invited me out with her and her friends. All women, a mix of ages (early 30s to late 40s) and dating histories (single, taken, married, divorced). I personally didn't know them well beyond a barbecue I was invited to in the summer but they were a fun group and I always wanted to go. Now I didn't have the best excuses not to go and often times it came down to me feeling not up to it but with my husband's insistence, I was energized and ready! I am not normally a sentimental person but 2024 was a big year of ups and downs and I thought maybe this was just a fun way to wrap things up.
I joined the group at the bar and we settled in, grabbed our drinks and joined the fun. Given it was near Christmas, the questions were very Christmas themed which helped since I am not really a trivia person so I was worried I'd be worst there. We ultimately didn't come in last which to me was a huge success, and my eyes darted to the winning team who all won a small cash prize to be used on their bill. Now I wasn't in my "looking for sex" kind of mood but I saw a group of college aged guys with a few that I could definitely see myself being interested in. To be clear, my mind didn't jump straight to that but I am not afraid to acknowledge that some were definitely very attractive.
One of the older women in the group, Kayla, immediately suggested we go over to congratulate them. Her motivation was simple: they won't be able to use all of their winnings on their drinks so might as well share. I didn't know Kayla well but based on the night, you knew she was 100% an extrovert and was comfortable talking to anybody. She was single and has the kind of fun and flirty energy that I was always envious of and it was on full display that night.
She went over first and before I knew it, the group found their away around our table and we started to mingle. I caught myself watching Kayla and a younger man named Jaime in an animated debate about best Christmas drinks before somebody quickly approached me.
"I've heard him bring up this debate before. I think he's into her."
I laughed and met his eyes before looking back. "Oh no, I think she's the one into him. Look at how her hands are always on his arm." He smiled back and we continued to watch, making comments on when one of them laughed too hard to something or if there was any more touching. It was clear they were flirting which was to nobody's surprise given Kayla's personality and the fact that she was gorgeous. My new friend finally introduced himself as Ethan and we found ourselves finally talking amongst ourselves and stopping ourselves from peeping.
We did our inevitable introductions, learning that he was in his second last year in his program and was going home for the holidays soon. I talked about how I was the newest to join this trivia group but I had fun. It was their first time at this particular trivia night so it seemed almost like fate that we would all meet. He was taller than me, handsome, had a kind of boyish haircut that framed his face nicely and had an incredibly deep voice that became one of the most attractive things about him.
As the night closed, Ethan offered his number and I told him we can exchange numbers as long as he didn't tell anybody. I took my uber home and was glad to see he texted me. Inevitably he was curious on the secrecy but I decided to wait until I got home to at least share the news with my husband and deciding if we wanted to proceed forward. Now to nobody's surprise, my husband was very encouraging and I ultimately shared the news about our lifestyle and how I didn't want that news to necessarily spread amongst people I knew.
It was my attempt at seeing if there was any chemistry beyond physical and to see if he was interested in me and as my husband put it, "he took the bait". We started flirting a bit and I could see he was testing the boundaries, complimenting me on my appearance, being shocked at my age and curious about my previous experiences. Although over the next couple weeks, we had family obligations with him visiting his family for Christmas and my husband's family coming to visit, I found myself glued to my phone when the text messages came in and it wasn't long until it started to get hot and heavy. We found ourselves pushing each other's buttons more and more and the developing relationship between Ethan and I of just pure teasing was INCREDIBLE.
We started to send photos to each other, no fully nude but just "tasteful" and "sexy" clothed pictures that really piqued each other's imagination. He'd send a shirtless photo of him wearing sweatpants that really gave too much information on his cock and my husband helped me take a picture of me bending over, showing some cleavage while making a sexy kissy face (well.. as sexy as possible). It was inevitable we started masturbating to each other's photos and each other's fantasies and my husband enjoyed it with me.
My favourite moment was at his Christmas dinner, I told him to get away from the dinner and find some privacy before we fantasized at how we would use each other in the washroom and how we'd be discreet. Imagining how we'd do our best to use each other to our fullest before coming out, pretending nothing was going on. I really enjoyed teasing him and when the night would end, I found my husband and I enjoying the messages as we played with each other.
As a Christmas gift for him being so good, my husband suggested I send him a video of his cock in my mouth and to tell him to "cum for mommy". In return, he ended up sending a video of himself cumming to my video which ended up being one of the hottest things we'd ever seen. And finally last night, he talked about his New Year's kiss and the jealousy I felt really made for even hotter sexting.
Sorry for the rambling as it feels like a lot has happened over the last few weeks. It almost feels like a certainty that we are going to fuck each other to the point of exhaustion soon but the endless teasing and sexting has been incredibly fulfilling already. Expectations are high and we've already coordinated meeting up at trivia with our groups in the coming weeks so I will keep you all updated!