How I realized I was a stag [stag] [wife]

So me and my wife have been together since high school. We have two kids together. We have one child that’s not mine and another one on the way that’s also not mine. After our second child together I decided to have a vasectomy and I still don’t regret having one. A couple years passed and my wife began wanting another child. I thought it would just be a phase that passed but boy was I wrong. She continued to mention it again and again. So after a few months of that I began to make jokes about she needs to find a boyfriend that looks like me and have a baby. She laughed everytime I said it and didn’t really say anything about it. Onetime when she mentioned a baby again I told her that I’ve already told you how to handle that. She asked was I serious and I told her if that was something she truly wanted it could be talked about. So over the next few weeks I think that thought just grew inside her and she finally asked a few weeks later if we could look for a guy that she really wanted to. So we did. Over the next few months we scouted the internet in search of the guy that would get my wife pregnant. We had several extremely good chats and we had hundreds of very bad chats. Lol. After we landed on the guy we both liked we went out on a few dates with him. We both liked this guy very much. So me and my wife had one last talk about if she was sure about this and she was still very excited and wanted to do it. So we talked to the guy and told him we wanted to go through with it and began tracking her cycle for the next month. When time came we invited him over. We had decided for best success rate that he should come over several times over a one week period so that’s what we did. I wanted my wife to have another baby. She wanted it so bad. What I did not expect was me absolutely loving seeing him have sex with my wife. It was and is the most amazing thing I’ve seen. We now have a 3 year old from This guy and he recently got her pregnant again and she is pregnant at the moment with another one of his babies and we are both extremely happy!