About a month ago, my girlfriend told me that her friend who is the DM of her D&D group was hitting on her and then after everyone left, he tried asking her out. Apparently he didn't know about us and she declined. I then told her that if she is curious about him to maybe give it a chance just for fun.
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She was surprised that I would say this and she then started thinking and did criticize heteronormativity and the constraints of monogamy. I agreed and we had a good discussion about non-monogany in general. This was the first time the topic came up, but she didn't sound interested to me and she then started bringing up things about him that she didn't like
But yesterday, I go over to her place to study and she informs me that she has a date later that night with him. I act curious and a little surprised that she actually went through with it, but I realize it was my idea. I asked her what they were doing and what her plan was. I noticed that she did her nails too. She hasn't done her nails since our second date. Then eventually she tells me that he's coming to pick her up in an hour and that we might have to wrap soon. She then puts on makeup which she has almost never done for me. Then when the time comes she says that he's coming and wraps our date up. She said she'd let me know how it was and I then leave.
I'm very aroused but ngl I'm feeling extremely jealous. And I'm not sure how to process it or whether I am right to be upset at her for not checking in on me again. I think she figured that I'd be open minded about it and part of me does want her to be happy. She told me that he took her to dinner and that they walked around a bit. She reaffirmed to me that I would always be a priority and that she would not leave me. I asked her what his intentions are and he said he was ok with nothing too serious for now and they fooled around in his car but she didn't say what they specifically did.
Any advice for processing all of this? I'm very turned on but also confused and a bit jealous. Why did she do her nails and put on makeup for him? I'm not sure how I should approach her about this. I'm glad she was at least forthcoming but I'm a bit unsure about all this