Just a background: we previously had experience with swinging style cuckolding where we’d go to clubs and I’d watch, then some experience with her playing alone but telling me details. Ultimately she realized that she didn’t really like that super open/shared sort of play anymore and wanted to do it more privately. We talked about it for a while, and finally agreed to try it out. She made profiles again, met someone, and we went into it last month.
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She’s only done it with this one person (she has a strong preference for one person at a time) and she tells me when she is going out (logistics are tough so we talk through it). When she gets home she has told me about the date itself (where it was, what it was like, even some little stories), but did not tell me anything about their physical/sexual relationship. She either showers or goes to bed when she gets home from the date itself so not much in terms of clues there.
For me it’s been a very wild emotional time – it’s sweet and nice being able to support her, and has actually been a huge turn on to not really know what is going on – it’s a total mind fuck! I will admit to trying to snoop and I found both a new box of condoms in the closet, as well as condoms in her purse and a bottle of lube in her bag, so I did know it was sexual even if I didn’t know the details.
My interest in seeing her get ready before she goes out has absolutely skyrocketed – it was never that much of a thing for me before, but now seeing how she’s dressed, seeing her do her makeup has become SUCH a turn on.
There were times when she was out where I’d get way more jealous than normal, and then she’d get home and it would be hard because there was no sort of end to that feeling. But we sat together in those times and she held and reassured me. Other times she jerked me off afterwards and it didn’t feel that different than the normal reconnecting we have done, albeit even more intense.
This weekend though we sat down and sorta had our first big check in (had little check-ins alone the way). I was able to express some of my jealousy and those types of feelings more than I even had before, as well as my excitement around it. She was super reassuring as she always is, but even moreso this time.
She also was able to open up that this arrangement is actually way more her style and feels much better and more fulfilling than any of the previous situations we’ve had. She was very thankful I was open to it and have stuck to it. She said that the reasons are sort of a combination of feeling freedom/agency when she is on her own, and also getting to share in a one-on-one sexual connection with someone. Basically that sexuality is so mental and getting to have that connection be between them & sort of her secret to keep is massively hot for her.
She did tell me some about it though – she did confirm that they are having sex and have since the first full date (they did two coffee dates before a bar date). She said that the sex is wonderful and full body and she is able to orgasm easily. They’re currently using protection but they are going to get tested so they can no longer do that. She also did say that he is pretty Dominant (which she’s always been into). I asked about his cock and body but she said she didn’t want to get into that.
As I started to ask more she asked me if I felt I needed to ask things or if I could be satisfied with what she had told me. I thought about it a minute and told her that I could be satisfied and so we ended the conversation there. We are going to continue our mini check ins and then have a deeper dive at least once a month on it. I don’t think we’re going to be talking much more about the sexual side, but I’m not sure.
Anyway thought I’d give a little insight since a lot of people seemed to be curious about this sort of arrangement last time.