35 yr old, former fully active and now occasional bull here. And almost every single day, at least one guy slides into my inbox with stuff like:
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“Bro, how do I become a bull?”
“How do I find a hotwife?”
“I wanna make a wife scream in front of her husband.”
Honestly, most of the time, I don’t even bother replying.
But today, as someone who's been a real life bull, I just want to speak straight because I think a lot of you wannabes and even some who call themselves bulls completely miss the point.
The moment people hear the word “cuck,” they picture some weak, spineless guy from porn or stories. But real life isn’t like that. Most cucks aren’t powerless they’re choosing a different kind of pleasure. They’re sexually capable men who get turned on by watching their wife enjoy someone else. And that’s a complex, emotional, mental space that porn completely fails to show.
Especially in India, I’ve seen this pattern a lot guys talk a big game online. They say they’re into cuckolding, but 90% of them aren’t ready to share their wife for real. They love the fantasy but don’t understand the mindset. If you’ve thought about this properly, you probably already get how the Indian male ego works.
And let’s be real your size doesn’t define your sexual performance. Being a bull isn't about how big your dick is, how hard you fuck, or how long you last. Sex isn’t just physical it’s creative. It’s about reading her body, knowing what turns her on, taking her somewhere mentally and emotionally she hasn’t been before. Even if you’re average, you can absolutely be unforgettable if you understand that.
And being a bull? That’s not 100% about sex. That’s maybe 40%. The other 60% is conversation. Connection. Comfort. You have to know how to talk. How to listen. How to make both the husband and wife feel seen, safe, and turned on. You need to build trust without rushing it. If you can't connect with your words, you’re not a bull. You're just another horny dude with a big ego.