My bull (and wife) crossed the line [humiliation]

I am conflicted on whether to share this but I’ll just do it. No references to irl personal details except age.

My wife (28F) and I (28m) recently got married, but are doing long distance temporarily due to work commitments. I wasn’t too keen on the lifestyle, and neither was she. She would maybe see one guy once every 2-3 months for sex, and text me the details afterwards. Nothing too wild or crazy.

So about 9 months ago she met this 30+ year old man in her reformers Pilates. Married, lean, tall, and works in the travel industry – I’ll just call him Bern.

Bern was your typical gentleman in public, but all a facade. He would pretend to be this family man but be engaged in prostitution and other vices. Over the months, he got to know my wife (back then still gf), and was told that we were into the lifestyle, albeit sparingly. And against better judgement I consented into them seeing each other (as my wife will always consult me first).

When we started, Bern would fuck say twice a week, both at my wife‘s place since Bern is a married man and I stay very far away. When he got comfortable with us, dipshit would sometimes shoot his load into our couch, sheets, walls etc. and expect us to clean up. He had his own tendencies as well. Things like cumming into her engagement ring, or marking her torso with permanent marker etc. I didn’t enjoy all of it but tolerated it nonetheless.

About 3 weeks before our wedding dinner, Bern started giving us shit for not inviting us to our wedding. Now both me and my wife came from a conservative background so we didn’t budge. Bern then started acting out, ranted non-stop, and accused us of wasting his time. We knew what he really wants, to establish absolute control psychologically.

This went on for a week. So the fortnight before our wedding, my wife agreed to have her navel pierced at Bern’s request in order to placate him.
Bern initially wanted his initials “B” as the piercing but thank the Heavens the piecing shop ran out of it.

I protested when I first heard but my wife proceeded with it without updating me. She promised me it was only temporary. Bern also accompanied her during the piercing session without telling me.

Obviously this did not sit well with me. During their next session (after our wedding), I broke down in tears mid session and had to exit the room. Bern just laughed and later called me back in to wipe his cum of my wife’s belly button piercing. My wife asked if I was ok and I said yes and gave the excuse that I was overwhelmed since it was their first sex when my wife and me are both husband and wife.

Part of me wants to rip off that ugly piercing, but my wife decided to keep it for kink purposes. Bern would sometimes text me and “remind” me who’s owning who.