BRIEF INTRO
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CuckoldPlace.com
Context in my previous 2 posts.
Original post here
https://www.reddit.com/r/cuckoldstories2/s/g4Bst2k9MC
TDLR: Bull (Bern) was a dick who went too far and pierced my wife’s belly button before our wedding without my consent. Wife later decided to take it off after I told her my feelings.
This will probably be my final update on this matter, so here goes.
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UPDATE
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So after reading most comments in my previous posts, and the occasional DMs, I finally told my wife how we should explore other bulls, especially in light of Bern’s recent attitude problem.
To be completely honest, she didn’t take that well at the start. She said that she genuinely enjoyed having sex with Bern and that she liked how Bern and our lives were separate (as Bern had his own family so he mostly leaves us alone).
We fought. Things got heated and emotional. To be fair, Bern was an improvement from our past experiences, so he wasn’t too bad relatively speaking. But I kept firm and insisted that we got to nip the problem in the bud. She was upset throughout the argument and was like “where are we even going to find someone else?!!”, and “isn’t this arrangement perfect? Since we have separate lives?”, etc. But I also knew what she wanted to say but didn’t – that Bern was the best in bed she had. I mean, she mentioned it off hand a few times, and I remembered.
I waited for things to cool down, and told her we can revisit the topic again.
During the next morning, she told me that she had the opportunity to sleep on it, and confessed that exploring other people won’t be a bad idea, while we keep our existing arrangement with Bern in the meantime. I agreed.
So we went to tinder and the local forums again, not expecting to meet anyone for at least a month.
Unexpectedly, we immediately matched with someone older who had experience in this lifestyle – let’s call him Ethan. Ethan was in his late 30s, married but in an open relationship. Unlike Bern, Ethan’s wife was fully aware of his sexual exploits and is 100% ok with it. A much healthier relationship.
Ethan did not want to rush things right off the bat, and he got to know us first over brunch. I won’t go into the fine details but I’ll just say that he was pleasant, easygoing, and a chill dude.
The next day, Bern found out. Mind you, this only happened a couple of days ago so it’s fresh in my memory.
To put it bluntly, Bern went apeshit. He became completely possessive, angry, and abusive. Granted he did not shout, but he was swearing, calling us selfish, and threatened to withhold sex until we stopped talking to Ethan.
Long story short, his outburst made our decision easy for us. We thanked him for his time with us, and promptly left. Just like that.
Now we have not had a session with Ethan (at this moment of this post), and are currently in the middle of arranging one. But I shan’t be posting on it seeing there’s no need to. I posted here because I needed to get stuff off my chest, and the recent developments have been comforting to say the least.
I don’t foresee posting any more updates, but before I end my post, I like to thank everyone who offered advice and guidance to me. Thank you again.