How can I humiliate the one I love? [cuckold]

My husband and I started this lifestyle 2 months ago. For many years it was a topic between us, something that interested and attracted us both, but because of other things (having kids, renovating the house, careers) it was always pushed aside. Then a few months ago we decided the time was right and we went for it. Luckily, we found a good Bull who is patient and supportive.

Actually, I have one problem. During our encounters my husband really wants to be verbally humiliated. The Bull does this for him, but he also wants to hear it from me. I’d like to give that to him too, but it’s hard for me. We’ve been married for 14 years, he’s the father of my kids, I adore him, and no matter what we do, I’m still very much in love with him.

I don’t know how to switch myself into that mode for those hours. How could I adjust inside myself so I can make him happy? Is it possible to just switch back and forth like that? Has anyone faced a similar dilemma, and if so, were you able to resolve it? I’d appreciate any advice. 🙂