From learning about my wife’s hot past to potential cuck scenario [cuckold]

First off, very new to this. It all started a little while back from my fascination on learning about my pretty shy wife’s past bfs and sexual experiences. Further details on background can be read in my previous posts. It got quite descriptive when it comes to my wife telling me about her one night stand. This guy she met that evening seemed to open up her sexual desires. I’d be yearning to know more each time we made love. And each time she would reveal something more. There’s no doubt that at that time she was head over heels over him. My wife is always reserved when it comes to sex (past and current) but I could always see her horny side come out when I’d ask her about that night and subsequent experiences with him. She stayed over his place the first time and proceeded to fuck him twice before she went home. He was her lover. I part of me was feeling jealous, but the other half was so intrigued by how much it seemed like she enjoyed being with him. He had even taken many “firsts” of my wife now that I’ve learned more. First time having sex without a condom. First time having a creampie… I’d be stunned just listening to her admit to these things when we’re being intimate.

Fast forward a few months now. Sex has still been amazing since the dirty talking. One evening after having sex, I was curious and asked if she knew if he was on instagram. She giggled and try to brush it off. But as I teased her and to let me check her insta. It occurred to me that they had recently followed each other again. She explained that he has always requested to follow her back a long time ago and she never did anything with it. I could tell she was trying to brush off the whole thing and that it wasn’t a big deal. She noticed she started to blush. I was trying to be cool about it so she wouldn’t be worried I was upset. She then show me his profile. My conclusion was he was quite different than me in everywhere. He was tall, attractive and honestly came across very confident. She even admitted that he would still comment on her stories here n there recently but she’d never responded or reacted. I teased her and told her to respond next time he reaches out.

Just a week or so later, wife and I had a fun time at a concert where she ended up posting a story on her socials. A day later she told me he reached out and they started to chit chat about concerts and other indie bands. I was already rock hard when she told me. Once again that night led to amazing sex. And I brought Adam up again while I was going down on her. Later that night in bed I asked her to show me the conversation they’ve been having. In short he was hoping to bring her to a concert and asked if she’d be down. My wife responded to me saying that’s a big no. But I floated the idea I’ll be okay if I came along as well. She brushed off the idea but I could tell she was thinking about it. I brought it up again the night after. And the night after that. Until she finally agreed.

The concert date is coming very soon and now I have a million things running through my head. I don’t even know where to start. How should I approach it??? Asking for some advice!