Cuckolding through Tinder in India

So when we started our lifestyle few years back we were exclusively only into guys we both knew personally. In the first year we just had 2 guys and she was happy with it since we met them fairly frequently anyhow. Things changed when she went to do a Master's in Chennai and few weeks in she was restless and lonely. We had an open conversation and she asked if it was okay with me to let her meet guys alone in Chennai.

We needed much communication before we made that decision so we spent almost a month talking about it before I gave her the green signal. She was excited and since her Tinder game was good while she did her studies in Bangalore few years earlier, she didn't expect things to be much different.

Problems started with having to keep her profile as if she was single, since that was the norm in Tinder. We didn't know or trust reddit and other platforms at the time so just followed the norm.

When she started getting matches, she realised most guys whom she picked, lost the excitement when they were told that I knew. Most of them never had heard of cuckolding or open marriages. In three months of active time on Tinder she just had 2 hookups :
A couple who were looking to try their first threesome and,
A college junior who didn't care that I knew.

These were great though and she was happy but the thrill of getting whoever she wanted wasn't there. I eventually told her to lie if she liked someone and that worked. She started telling guys either that she was cheating or that I don't get to know who she sleeps with. She enjoyed the dirty talking with guys who were told she was cheating. She had a history of cheating in past relationships and so enjoyed the thrill and nastiness of it all.

Today we are not sure of things have improved on apps like Tinder and Bumble. We are happy through that more people are open to these lifestyles and a lot of stigma has reduced. We are also able to connect with more guys through reddit and similar apps. We still wonder if the outlook has changed except in metro cities though. Even in the UK Indians are still not open to cuckolding/open marriage lifestyles!