My wife told me about her new rules with her Dom [cuckold] [bdsm]

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I posted once before, but as a background to our situation, we’ve been doing cuckolding for a while – we did it when we were just dating/newly married, took a long break to have a family, then got back to it the last two years. When we reopened things for her, she started exploring kink – something she’d been interested in for years. The last 6 months she’s been seeing her first real Dom, and they’ve developed a D/s relationship.

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It’s been going well, it’s intense for all of us, but has been the most fulfilling relationship she’s had in all this so far too. She plays by herself with him and tells me about it, and occasionally he has tasks she does at home that I’ve seen/been a part of.

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A little while back they started talking about collaring – in the D/s world it’s sort of a way to make a commitment, sort of a way to say yes, you are my Dom, and I am your sub. For some people it’s less serious like saying boyfriend/girlfriend, and for others it’s more serious like marriage. They started talking about it though and we haven’t fully understood what it meant in the context of our relationship and their relationship. Her Dom doesn’t see it as serious as marriage (no nesting, sharing families, etc etc) but sees it as a strong commitment. We had said we’d talk more.

This past week she was with him one night, and the next day after she was home we had some time together. Usually we start talking about the session, and then we go to the bedroom and mess around some while she tells me the details. As we started to talk though, she said she actually wanted to talk to me seriously. Instead of leading me to the bedroom, she went to the kitchen to make coffee for us, and we sat down at the kitchen table.

She was clearly nervous and sort of shy about it – but ultimately said that they had a big conversation the previous night about collaring, and its something they want to work towards. She said they weren’t ready yet, but want to take steps to it over the next couple of months.

We talked for a while – I asked her a lot about what that meant, what she thought it would mean for them, what it means for us, and what working towards it will entail. I won’t bore you with all the details that are really in the more open relationship/polyamory type space, and honestly a lot is still confusing and requires more conversation. The pertinent bit for this group here is the "working towards it" – as we got into what that enatils, she went to her bag and brought out a piece of paper.

She explained that they had put together a list of rules to see if collaring would be feasible and something we would all want. Some were his idea, some were her idea, and some they came up with together. She wanted to discuss them with me to see if they would also work for her & I.

1. She stays two nights per week at his house. [This is what we’ve been doing, basically – it’s just not SET, just generally how it works out]

2. On days they aren’t together, she has to spend at least 30 minutes private time with him. [She currently texts etc whenever and occasionally facetimes, but this has become a requirement and includes weekend days when we’re home together etc]

3. She can’t see anyone else or sext anyone else without his expressed permission [Obv doesn’t apply to her and I, just other 3rd parties. She’s not seeing anyone else and doesn’t want to though]

4. She has to keep a sexual journal in a shared note with him. [She has to write down any time she masturbates, watches porn, or does anything sexual with me.]

5. When they aren’t together, he can order her to do any tasks at any time that don’t negatively impact me, work or family life. [He does this occasionally now, things like wearing a butt plug etc – We added to this that she doesn’t have to tell me when she’s doing a task for him, it’s up to her.]

6. She has to text him first thing in the morning and right before bed every day.

7. She has to stay shaved, and can't wear a bra unless a sports bra is needed for a specific activity.

There were a number of others that she shared with me but aren’t relevant to us, its stuff at his place:

1. When on dates she can’t wear a bra or underwear

2. At his house she has to stay naked unless he otherwise instructs her. She has to take her clothes off & be inspected when she gets there.

3. All chores need to be completed before any other sex or play. [A big part of their dynamic is a domestic sub relationship, so she does chores assigned to her there]

4. Punishments earned during time they aren’t together must be done before any other sex or play.

We talked through theses for a while and made some small amendments, but generally speaking it’s codifying what is already happening and just adding some additional structure to it. I do think that it opens the door for a lot more play between them when they aren’t together.

Once some of the nerves around sharing this with me went away, it was actually sort of nice and sweet to be able to go through it with her and talk about it. It was of course in some ways very hot and sexual, but in other ways wasn’t – more matter of fact negotiating that was interesting and different than a lot of other conversations that we’ve had.

We talked a bit more about how collaring would go – she said that first, they’d stick to these rules for a couple of months to see how it would fit for them, and for us. Once it got to that point, there likely would be additional rules and we would all have to talk through it to make sure that it’s the right move. For the collaring itself, while called that, it isn’t super practical to wear a permanent collar around her neck – so when it comes time they will go and have her nipples and her labia pierced as the ‘collar’ she’d wear.

She asked if I wanted to talk with him about this current set of rules and I thought about it for a while, but ultimately said not right now. I did reach out and text him and just said that they have my blessing on these rules. We will see how it goes. I’m sure there will be more negotiating and evolution as things go along, but this conversation was definitely one of the most intense moments we’ve had together in everything we’ve done so far.