My wife loves giving [mercy sex] to lonely [older] guys | It’s something that we both find very erotic and fulfilling

This has been a turn-on for my wife for a long time now, and ever since she told me about it, I actually find the idea really hot as well. She loves helping out guys (who are usually much older) who have gone without sex for a very long time due to divorce, being widowed, having self-esteem problems, or just being stuck in a stale marriage. She is very turned on by knowing that she's giving them such immense relief that they have needed for a long time and knowing how excited they are. But aside from the erotic thrill aspect of it, it generally just makes her feel happy for them as well because she's a very empathetic, caring, nurturing person by nature. So much so that even her one and only kink revolves around empathy. I guess she just has a thing for "helpful" sex if that's even classed as a kink lol.

It's not merely sex either; she will go out on a date with them so they can both spend all day cultivating a social bond so that way the evening will be more romantic and intimate. She makes it really intimate and loving for them too and prefers to make love with them and sleep overnight with them so they can experience actual intimacy along with the sex. I don't mind her doing this at all because I think it's really sexy and hot, but it's also just really cool and wholesome, and I feel really happy for those guys too.

She has been helping out a good friend of ours a few times a month since back in October 2021. He is 58 and widowed and hadn't had sex in 16 years until she first helped him out in October. Her and I had been discussing it for about a year before that though because it takes a lot of discussion and deliberation when you're doing something like this for someone you know very well since there are a lot of potential risks involved. But thankfully it all turned out really well, and it meant the world to him getting to have sex with her. He said it was such a tremendous relief and felt like 500 pounds had been lifted off his shoulders. He said it was a beautiful experience in the emotional sense to be able to make love with her and feel that kind of romantic intimacy again, and being able to cuddle and kiss while talking and then fall asleep with her after really added to the intimacy too. But he said the physical relief was indescribable too and that sinking into a vagina after so long was utterly incredible and left him speechless because he had pretty much forgotten what it was like after 16 years. I was so happy for him! ????

I'm not sure what else to say about this, but if anyone has any questions about anything I didn't touch upon, feel free to ask!