My wife [34f] confessed her needs weren’t being met with me [38m]

I just wanted to share how my wife and I opened up her side of the marriage and for anyone that has the fantasy but doesn't think it can coincide with their normal public life maybe this will provide some encouragment. We still maintain a very balanced normal life, normal jobs, involved with our kids sports, church on Sundays, etc, but then she makes time to fulfill all of her needs outside of our marriage that otherwise just wouldn't be met. We made it about 6 months being married before I started finding little things that turned out to be pretty big hints but I chose to ignore them at first rather than embrace and accept them. Started with going through her browser history and seeing she enjoyed interracial porn. Which wasn't a big deal its extremely common. Then I noticed she enjoyed showing off and really liked attention from the opposite sex, again pretty common honestly. Bikinis were always skimpy, dresses kept getting shorter, and I'd catch her purposely showing off but acting oblivious that everyone around was getting a eye full. (Changing out of her wet bikini in a parking lot into her dry clothes but lingering around way longer than necessary to make sure everyone would see) but then one day before our 1st wedding anniversary approached she said she wanted to talk to me about something after work. I was nervous all day and when I got home she was in our bed naked, she pulled me in close beside her, started kissing me a little, she gave me her puppy eyes and pouty lips and said I had to promise not to be mad at her. So I promised and braced myself. She confessed that she enjoys attention from other men sometimes and I already kinda knew that so it wasn't breaking news or anything but then she told me that sometimes she talks with guys in her dm's and has sent pics of herself naked because their validation makes her feel good. I was shocked and pretty stressed out right about now but I kept my composure. She insisted she just wanted to come clean and tell me because she hated hiding it from me. Long story short over the next months I started snooping and found that she was cheating, seeing a couple of the guys she was chatting with pretty frequently. I took some time to gather myself and planned to confront her but I jut couldn't for some reason. Then one day we're just relaxing in bed and she was telling me about how everyone at work is always teasing her about her ass and how big it is and that an African American delivery guy was flirting with her in front of all of her female coworkers and that it made her feel good. I'm not sure what happened but seeing her light up about it really felt good for me for some reason, and I started wondering how far all of this would go if we just both openly and honestly talked about it. So we did. She admitted she always liked black men but never had the opportunity to date outside her race. I told reassured her that I was glad she felt comfortable enough to talk to me about stuff that she likes and she doesn't have to feel guilty about it. I'm not sure what happened but the next day while I was at work I got a text from her. She said don't be mad, but i signed up for a tinder account just for fun and I feel like I'm in a candy store. Things happened pretty fast from there. Within the week she had the talk with me, she wasn't satisfied in our bedroom and she wanted my support and encouragement for her to try new things with new partners. I was a little reluctant but it was also very sexy to see how excited she was. So I gave in, I told her she has my support and the rest is history. We've been married 10 years and even right now she is getting all pretty and dressed to go out on another date tonight. She's had more dates than we can keep track of, she's had serious boyfriend/ relationships, she's even dated girls from time to time. Now I will go ahead and say, sex in our bedroom is no more. I still worship her, I get to drool over her, but she has locked in her preferences as far as sexual partners go and she pretty knows what she wants in the bedroom at this point. We are both honest with each other though and we both agree we wouldn't have it any other way. So if you're thinking about it, let things happen, it can be a really unique and fulfilling relationship if you let it.