This post is to share our story from beginning to current.
After our first experience in the lifestyle I came to a realization that I had opened up the Pandora’s box with my wife and this lifestyle. Following that first meet up we took a month or so before really discussing the topic again. Watching my wife being fucked in front of me definitely left me with some reservations about the lifestyle and I don’t think I was as prepared for it the first time. My wife had brought up how much she actually came to enjoy being shared and that the thought of being able to sleep with other men really turned her on. To know that she could still indulge on her urges to have sex with other men she found attractive even though she was in a relationship was very appealing as she admitted she often had a wandering eye for other men and considering she hadn’t explored sexually very much before our marriage she particularly enjoyed still being able to have the opportunity. She also had admitted that being with a guy with a bigger cock was also extremely exciting. Coupled with a newfound interest in the idea of her husband watching her being fucked by another man, she said she wouldn’t be against doing it again.
I had explained that although I may have regretted it at the time of our first meeting I later found myself very turned on by it as well. I had suggested we get more into the swinging lifestyle but she quickly turned that down as she didn’t want me to play with other women. She wanted to be able to play with other men but she wanted me all to herself. She explained that my style of sex is more passionate and more in the sense of love making and that I may not mean it that way but she doesn’t want other women to have that. She wanted to cuck me. But she also wouldn’t want to continue if I wasn’t on board with it and she understood if I didn’t want to because of that.
I had thought to myself my wife is an incredibly hot woman with an amazing body, why shouldn’t I share her with other men, I shouldn’t be the only one that’s able to have sex with this incredibly hot woman and I love seeing her with other men. Especially knowing how much she actually enjoys the freedom. I decided we would continue to explore the lifestyle.
We had some conversations pertaining to boundaries and what we should expect a regular lifestyle to consist of before moving forward. We decided that our main rule was no emotions. This was strictly to be a sexual thing and if any sign of emotional connection began to establish we would terminate the arrangements. We would also both be involved in any vetting of potential partners and both of us have to agree before any meet ups. She also only wanted to play if I was present to watch as that was a big part of the turn on for her that I was watching, I couldn’t be in agreeance more. Initially she said that if at any point I wasn’t feeling it anymore I could tell them to stop but she later said that if I lose interest that I should let them finish and not ruin the moment as she wouldn’t want to be stopped during the high and that we could talk about it later. I agreed to her terms and we continued forward.
We had a few meet ups with guys and some went well and they ended up having sex and some didn’t make it past the initial meeting as we started to find our preferences. We even had a couple of guys that we had for multiple meet ups and things went well. The further we went along I would go back and forth in being turned on by the kink and having times where I wasn’t interested in it as much or at all, but my wife maintained a steady interest in it and I could see her frustration during the times when I wasn’t as interested. It came to a point when I told my wife I was ready again she said to me she is tired of being disappointed when I’m not in the mood. She gave me an ultimatum that if I wanted to continue at any capacity in the lifestyle that she had to have the ability to play regardless of if I was in the mood for it or not. And she still wanted me to watch during those times even if I wasn’t into it as that was major part of the turn in for her. It was an all or nothing decision and I agreed to do what she wanted as I knew she was right. Even if I wasn’t into at the time I would eventually want to see her pleasing another guy again. I would come to find that although it was hard to watch, the times when I wasn’t as interested it would fuel her slutty side. She would go wild and I would watch her give the best blowjobs and ride these guys cocks like a pornstar. She would push the bar higher and higher each time. She was craving these guys cocks and would do anything they wanted.
She was infatuated with big cocks. She would often set her phone background to pictures of their cocks as it was always on her mind. Watching this transformation in her was incredibly hot and I was loving it. She was appreciative of the freedom I gave her and she made sure to show it. It strengthened our sex life and we have had the best sex by ourselves since we’ve been married. It has also strengthened our communication and our overall bond with each other.
Meeting new guys is always an exciting experience. Seeing the look on her face when she is pulling a new guys pants down and his cock flops out in front of her I can see her eyes light up with excitement as she imagines the fun she’s about to have with it. I also enjoy the expressions on the guys faces and hearing the sounds they make when my wife is giving them a great blowjob or when they feel how good her pussy feels. We do thorough testing beforehand and my wife is on birth control so we don’t use condoms. They can cum inside her pussy or her mouth, really wherever they want and they love using her body for their personal pleasure. I’m often told I’m crazy for sharing her, one guy had literally said that to me as she was sucking his cock. And that may be true but it is insanely hot and by far the wildest kink.
I also often get asked if the lifestyle has changed my perspective of my wife. I will tell you my wife is a rather petite woman and I have seen her being fucked by other guys in just about every position you can imagine. They have fucked her in doggy style, she has ridden them cowgirl, they have folded her legs up and railed her pussy, picked her up and fucked her while holding her under her knees or her legs wrapped around them. I’ve seen her pinned down and tied up. She has given some of the sloppiest blowjobs and been throat fucked. I’ve seen other guys cum on every part of her body, inside her and watched her swallow. They have slapped her in the face with their cocks, and painted her face in their cum. Through all of this I still find my wife beautiful and love her more everyday.
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