My [49f] wife’s 25 years of cheating [50M]

49f wife has a hot past

My wife is now 49 years old. She is a very well kept, professional mom of three. Community leader. She has a nice big fat ass. Big milky tits that still look great to this day. What's bigger then big ass is her hot past. She has a bit of a cheating kink for the last 25 years. However she has no idea I know of most of it. Here's the list of what I know. We both loved in a small north central town.
We start dating
1. I was in the army when we got together. I was on leave back home. I know of 3 of my personal friends who fucked her.
2. There was a group of basketball players who came through our small community called the Harlem Crowns. They attended a party where she was at and someone opened a door only to see a 6'4 black guy with his hands in her hair facefucking her.
3. She fucked a guy (with a nice car) at a local motel, she told her friend it was the best.
4. She fucked the local drug dealer all the time (weed) he told everyone she was his fat little whore.
5. She fucked another POS around town repeatedly.
6. We marry have 2 kids
7. I found an email from her boss, he was 50 she was 24 at the time. The email said "thank you for being a good little slut and letting me cum all over you when we you want.
8. Same guy, I came home early from an out of town job at about midnight and seen this guy walking down the street. He was the ems chief (old married fat guy with kids) so I knew where he was headed. I looked in the window and seen the were candles lit all over (only see silhouettes) then I could hear him say clearly get on your knees you little bitch and suck cock. She replied "yes daddy " it went silent except for slurping noises. Then I heard moans, and then what I assume was spanking and screams. He was totally degrading her. He called her a fat little slut, daddy's pig and she sounded like she was in pain. Wait a bit texted walked in the house and she played it off like nothing happened.
8. One time I found her walking out of an ally and heard rumors she was talking to this big ass weightlifter married cop. Later I found in her phone, a video between them of her sucking hjs dick (it was little) while she was sucking his dick top view down in in video he was sticking something like a cucumber in and out of her ass and giving it a spank from toe to time.
9. Weightlifter cop and weightlifter bros. We had small place in town to workout and the cop and his weightlifter bros could go in after hours. I found video of her and her friend. Her friend was getting fucked by the cop and she was sucking someone's dick while getting fucked from behind. He looked over at some other muscle head and said "look at that ass jiggle"
She had an abortion after that and never told me about it.
10. Her friend told me more about the ems chief, she'd sneak out of the house and her friend would watch the kids as he used her at his will .
11. We moved
12. She was a paramedic by this time. I found some anal lube so investigated more. Simply found a text saying "thanks for filling my ass up it was fun.
Who knows how many times she got fucked at the ambulance station.
13. Her friend told me that her and my wife fucked a "jetter" one night. Ate each other out ect.
14. We moved south so the only thing I found was an email between her and a former medic. It was her showing him her tits and he said "you were always the best partner, I miss the hand jobs.
15. We moved north.
16. Her assistant and I were good friends. He was like her dog. Running around doing shit work for her Rumors would float around and I just thought it was nonsense, however I knew he has a big dick as he always told us. One time she bought me tickets out of state to a concert, I left the iPad on with a voice recorder dictation. (Recording sucked but I got the jist of it. I was gone only three days and when I got back I listened and this guy fucked the shit out of her at least ten time. I could hear him calling her a fucking bitch, her saying just fuck me. Saying how her fat ass jiggled which I heard before. He told her to stop fetching like a dog. I heard them fuck in the shower, I heard them fuck in every room. She always said spank me harder and that you could hear as plain as day. I heard her say sit in the chair (dunno what happened there burnt was intense) I know they randomly fucked when I was out town after the fact.
17. We moved again
18. I found texts between her and a married firefighter. One was when I was in the living room and she said she was taking a shower. Him jerking off her using a dildo. I also found more messages of him saying he likes the way she looks up at him when she's sucking his dick. He likes the way her tits bounce off her face when he fucks her.
Wild man wild
They are making plans to hook up again. Funny she doesn't realize all the apple devices she's logged into

I have learned to love it!
What don't I know about ?