Like the title says my wife has always had a very active sex life and despite this it's still shocking how often she masturbates.
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We started having sex when we were 13. Since both of her parents worked second shift we had plenty of time after school to play house. Not surprisingly we were parents at 17. We moved in together at 18 just after graduating high school and married at 19 just before I joined the army reserve and left for 9 months of training. We've been married for 41 years at this point.
Even back then I knew her sex drive was much higher than mine and mine is pretty high. Within weeks of me leaving for the army she cheated for the first time. In fairness she got drunk at a party she went to with her friend and a few frat boy types took advantage of her. I happened to call home the next day and she admitted to it and immediately broke down crying. I didn't really get anything else out of her before the call ended.
What followed next was an unfortunate exchange of letters because we were dealing with snail mail at the time since the internet didn't exist. Her letter explained what happened. She had passed out, woke up with a guy on top of her and after realizing 4 of his friends were watching, became an active participant and let them all have a turn. She's always been a bit of an exhibitionist.
My letter said it wasn't her fault, they took advantage of her and that I forgave her because she deserved companionship while I was away.
Unfortunately those letters crossed in the mail and before I could respond to hers she had already gone back to the house where the party was at and slept with all three of the roommates living there. They had all been involved the previous weekend. The cat was out of the bag and there wasn't much I could do about it hundreds of miles away in boot camp. So that affair continued until I got home months later. She went over there every weekend and had sex with the roommates and any of their friends that stopped by.
She stopped seeing them when I got home and was pretty much the ideal wife. Cooking, taking care of the house and pretty much begging me for sex all the time. It didn't last long though, she was cheating again with a much older coworker in less than 6 months. It honestly took me 6 more months to figure out that affair was going on because of the frequency at which we were making love. Pretty much twice daily in the morning and evening.
When I confronted her about the affair she admitted to everything. It was quite shocking to learn that she was hooking up with him daily during their lunch break and again after work. He lived close to their office and I worked late which made that possible. She would clean up and dress for work after our morning love making and then bath again when she got home from work.
That was enough for me and we separated for almost 2 years after that. Money was pretty tight at the time, being a teen parent will tend to do that to you, so we never actually filed for divorce. During the separation I dated and slept with quite a few women. My wife's lover introduced her to cuckolding which was his fetish. So she had a very active sex life during the separation as well. He tended to share her with anyone that would let him watch.
Eventually we reconciled and agreed that going forward we would have an open marriage. At the time I probably took advantage of that situation more than she did but she still had several lovers.
In our early 30s we got into swinging. Anyone that's ever been in that lifestyle will know that for a number of reasons women tend to get more action than men. Her body count grew steadily. With exhibitionism being a big kink for her most of our visits to parties and adult clubs pretty quickly escalated to her getting gangbanged while dozens looked on.
By our early 40s I wasn't really into it anymore and quickly lost interest. She wanted to continue so our dynamic changed again and she essentially became a hotwife. That essentially made me a cuckold but we are pretty far from what that normally entails. I don't usually participate when she plays, it's not really a big turn on for me. I just have a wife with a very high sex drive and don't mind letting her get her fix.
She's had plenty of regular bulls ever since. She continued attending swinger events with many of them and those that didn't tended to be considerably younger than her.
Despite this very active sex life it's still surprising how often she masturbates. For the last ten years since she hit menopause this is usually 4 or 5 times a day.
As a teen she had a hair brush with a large handle she often masturbated with. I consider masturbation a personal act but even back then she wasn't the least bit bashful about it. She would regularly play with that hairbrush in my presence.
She bought her first vibrator when she was 18 when one of her girlfriends hosted a sex toy party. It wasn't much of a toy, maybe 6 inches long with a hard plastic shell which was pretty much the only thing available at the time. It didn't even vibrate all that much. It did however have a fairly broad head and then it tapered in the middle and flared back out at the end where the dial was to turn it on. Kind of the shape of a modern butt plug but not nearly as narrow where it tapered. So she could insert it and it would generally stay in place for hands free operation.
That first vibe got used a lot. She would often insert it and let it run while we watched movies or laid in bed reading. It wasn't very powerful and took a long time to get her off but she'd usually have 3 or 4 orgasms during a typical movie.
She was crushed when it quit working and quickly bought a replacement of the same type as well as her first dildo. The dildo was made of rubber and smelled awful but was much softer and more comfortable. She had to do a lot more work to get herself off with it though, thrusting it in and out manually. It was also really entertaining watching her trying to pin it between a couple pillows so she could ride it hands free. It would be years before suction cup dildos hit the market.
Those were the toys that got her through my army training. She used them multiple times daily during the week and even on the weekends while she was having sex with multiple partners on the weekends. Again she wasn't bashful about this. She often wrote to me in great detail about using them and would take them along on the weekends and put on shows with them while the frat boys watched. They also had her insert and masturbate with empty bottles and various other household items.
During her time with the frat boys she also had anal sex for the first time. Quite a few of them were watching at the time and it really turned her on to do such a dirty thing in front of so many of them. It quickly became a regular thing that many of them did to her and she's been hooked on anal ever since. Not surprisingly she added a ribbed anal dildo to her collection which she would often insert in her back door while using her vibe in the front door.
During our separation her toy collection grew exponentially. Her lover was taking her to a lot of the adult book and video stores that were common at the time in hopes of finding men to share her with. Both he and the other men at those stores often bought toys for her to play with since she had no qualms with using them on herself while they watched.
When we reconciled I was still bitter about her cheating and had a regular girlfriend that I was spending a lot of time with so I wasn't really sleeping with my wife much. She started masturbating several times a day at that point and for longer periods of time.
I'd often wake up in the morning and she'd be laying beside me pleasuring herself. She'd usually masturbate again as soon as she got home from work and then again before she went to sleep. That last session of the day often lasted for an hour or more and she'd often cycle through half a dozen toys while doing so. Even when I took pity on her and we had sex she'd go right back to the toys until she went to sleep. I can assure you that I always got her off on those occasions, she just enjoyed pleasuring herself that much.
She had regular lovers during that point as well and they all got the job done but that didn't diminish the amount of time she spent self pleasuring either. She had her first black lover during this point and he was considerably larger than anyone else she had been with. He was really into receiving oral pleasure from her and she became obsessed with being able to deepthroat him. She started training herself to control her gag reflex with various dildos. It actually worked and after that I'd often catch her masturbating with a dildo wedged down her throat as well.
By the time we started swinging she was still following the same schedule and pleasuring herself three times a day. It didn't matter how active we were or how many lovers she had.
She also started having sex with a lot of other hotwives we met swinging. She purchased several strapons with realistic dildos of various sizes that she would use on the other wives and many of the ladies would reciprocate. While that really isn't masturbation I felt it was worth mentioning the extra toys that were added to her collection.
At some point in our early 30s she purchased her first rabbit vibrator and they quickly became her favorite. With all the features designed for stimulation of multiple spots she could easily climax in less than a minute at full power. She preferred to run on lower settings and enjoy a series of smaller orgasms during her longer sessions.
The first rabbit was huge, at least 18 inches long. Only 4 or 5 inches was actually insertable. The majority of it's length was in the handle where the D batteries that powered it were housed. It sounded like a chain saw when she turned it on. I'm not sure she even realized how loud it was. At the time my hobby workshop was in the basement of our home. It was 2 floors below the master bed room and in the opposite corner of the house. I often worked down there in the evening and could easily hear it when she fired it up to start her evening session.
I had put her through college after we reconciled and she had quickly climbed the career ladder. With increased responsibility came increased stress so the only thing that really changed during this period was that she started keeping a smaller vibe in the glove box of her car. She often used it to relieve stress during her lunch break.
At about the same time I lost interest in swinging I also sold my company and retired. My wife was offered a promotion if she would move down south where the corporate headquarters was located. We did and purchased a home in a rural wooded area.
With her increased workload she often came home exhausted and liked to soak in the tub with a glass of wine to unwind. She had several waterproof rabbits that she often took along as well so her after work sessions more often than not occurred in the bathtub.
She had always wanted a swimming pool and so we had purchased a home that had one. Because the house was in such a secluded area she quickly took to sunbathing nude in the evenings. In fact she rarely got dressed after her bath anyway. At best she'd throw on a short, silk bathrobe at times. I guess that much easy access was too much temptation for her and she regularly started masturbating while she laid out by the pool.
Around this time butt plugs were starting to be released that had decorative gems of various colors attached to them. She had quite a few of them in different colors. She was wearing a lot of finer clothes and jewelry to work in her new position and she started wearing the plugs regularly as part of her ensemble. She would generally only remove them for anal intercourse or while masturbating if she wanted to use a different toy back there and of course to use the restroom. This is a practice she has maintained to the present day.
She was often required to wear pant suits for important meetings which limited access for self pleasuring during her lunch break compared to skirts. Her solution was to purchase a butterfly vibrator with a harness that she could wear all day. It had a remote control but she would often just turn it on when she left for work and let it run all day. It wasn't as powerful as any of her rabbits but she enjoyed the stimulation and random orgasms she had through the day. There were some embarrassing moments early on when she soaked through her panties and had a wet spot appear on her suit so she started wearing panty liners to solve that problem.
Since reaching menopause her sex drive has skyrocketed. Sadly I began having problems with ED around the same time so the number of bulls she has and frequency at which she sees them have both increased. Even with them she still masturbates at the same frequency and the duration she spends doing so has also increased. I think it's even fair to say that she has gotten even more extreme while doing so.
In addition to all the larger vibes she has also purchased a pair of nipple clamps and a clit clamp that all have tiny vibrators attached to them. They seem to offer little stimulation but I often see her wearing them while she's using larger toys in all 3 holes.
Suction cup dildos have also become very big with her and I've caught her riding them all over the house. On top of the kitchen table, washing machine and living room coffee table just to name a few. As always she isn't bashful when she is caught and will just keep going until she's satisfied. She certainly isn't going to stop just because I walk in the room. She also favors these for oral play because they tend to be a little longer and the large cup on the bottom prevents her from accidently swallowing them where they might get stuck in her throat.
Rabbits are still her favorite type of vibrator. Thankfully they've gotten much quieter as she often takes calls from her subordinates in the evenings while she's using them. I often wonder if they can hear a slight buzzing while they're on the line and what they'd think about their boss, now a VP of the company if they knew how regularly she used them.
They've also added a number of new features over the years to enhance pleasure. One of the features she likes is the thrusting vibe. Once inserted a piston drives the tip in and out to simulate real intercourse.
Another feature she likes is an attached anal probe. She has several models with this feature. She's been regularly masturbating both vaginally and anally with 2 different toys simultaneously for years. It's rather convenient to have one toy that does both at the same time.
The final feature she likes are those with a modern, sleek and more ergonomic design. These often feature a large head and she likes the stretch when it's first inserted after which the head serves to hold it in place for hands free operation. They also tend to feature shorter ears for more focused clitoral simulation.
These days her nightstand has three full drawers filled with toys. I'm used to seeing them plugged in charging all over the bedroom and bathroom. There always seems to be a stack of them being cleaned in the bathroom or kitchen.
We both turned 60 earlier this year. At the time she had two regular bulls that she was seeing pretty much daily on weekdays. This did not alter the number of times she was masturbating daily.
She would meet the first one during their lunch break. She was only having anal sex with him so her habit of always wearing butt plugs really helped to keep her stretched out and ready to go. Time was limited during their break.
The other was half her age and would call in the evenings when he was ready for a booty call. He also liked to degrade her a bit which is also a big turn on for her. She was required to always be naked in his presence. Since she rarely got dressed after bathing when she got home from work she would often just drive to his place naked. He didn't live far away and we were in a rural area so that wasn't terribly risky.
He also liked to force her to masturbate in front of him. This was almost laughable for her but she went along with it because it seemed to really turn him on. This was just about the only time she did so without using toys.
He would generally only have sex with her once a week. The rest of the time he just demanded that she orally pleasure him. Either way he liked to finish by giving her a facial and he would kick her out as soon as he was done. She wasn't supposed to clean off the facial until she got home. Being used and discarded like that was a big turn on for her especially if they didn't have intercourse. She would rush home and start her bed time masturbation session immediately, oftentimes not bothering to clean up her face before beginning. It was almost comical to see her so frantic.
Several months after her birthday she started seeing a third bull on weekends. He is black and likes sharing her with his friends. As a result she is now having sex with 3 or 4 different men on the weekend and often multiple times.
Even sleeping with that many partners on a regular basis hasn't satisfied her libido. She still masturbates daily with the same frequency. Given the active (and satisfying) sex life she's always had I can't explain why she feels the need to self pleasure as much as she does. I gave up on trying to figure that out years ago and just let her do her thing. Happy wife, happy life.
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