First Wife’s Boyfriend she found at the gym [cuckold’s perspective]

True story, our first real cuckold experience. My wife met her first bull / boyfriend at her gym. The dating apps were not for her, she wanted to meet someone organically. She noticed him over a number of sessions, he was very fit and ripped, admiring him and trying to make eye contact (she was a bit shy and nervous) and made a point of starting chatting to him in the sauna / steam room (she started a conversation with him in the sauna, she asked him if he had a nice workout, corny I know), which got my cuckold desires going (telling me about it each time, imagining them sitting in the sauna hot and sweaty showing off their bodies to each other). She started wearing sexier gym outfits and swimsuits and after working out his routine she was able to ‘bump into him’ often, with the flirting ramping up each time, I must admit I loved the anticipation each time she packed her gym bag. Her trips to the gym certainly became more frequent! Eventually after ‘putting it on a plate’ for him he asked her out for a drink. She was almost losing hope by then, ‘how obvious do I need to be?’ she asked me. That was her first date with another man which was a big step for us. She almost pulled out due to nerves but thankfully went through with it. I was a bag of nerves as well.

He was a bit surprised when she told him we have an open marriage, up to that point she had told him she was separated as she was wearing her wedding ring. She did not use the word cuckold at first fearing it would scare him off. Although she did use the term cuckold later. Watching the dates progress sent my cuckold angst into overdrive. First kiss, making out and eventually sex at his place. The sex was a huge leap of faith for us into the cuckold world. She said he was average size (still bigger than me) but had huge stamina which gave her the sex she was lacking with me (see my other posts for details). They even worked out together for a while at the gym (well kind of!). Eventually they broke up, he was a bit younger than her and got emotionally clingy (told her he loved her after a couple of months). She says she loved her gym experience, with her gym boyfriend with stamina that could go all night. She still sees him at the gym and is on good terms, he would love a second chance with her and still asks her out.

Is the gym a natural place for wife’s to meet bulls / boyfriends?