I need help getting my [36m] hesitant wife [36f] to cuck me.

We’ve talked about it several times. It started with a recently (last year or so) developed foot fetish. She was stepping on my face while I was jerking off and asking me if I wanted to watch her fuck somebody else. Eventually this turned into the situation of her jerking me off while telling me slutty stories from her past. She’s not the biggest slut, but with a body count over 50 she has plenty of experience.

More recently, my band played 4 days in California. We got back, and when I was fucking my wife, she asked me if I thought about other guys fucking her while I was gone. I said yes. She asked if I thought about them giving her a creampie. I immediately nutted inside of her. Fast forward a couple weeks later, my band played a Halloween show. She dressed super slutty. We got home, and had sex, and once again she asked if I was waiting for somebody to bend her over and eat her pussy from the back at the Halloween show, and I came immediately. A week or two later, she made me jerk off while she peppered me with questions. Do I want to watch her with girls? Do I want to watch her get DPed? Do I want to watch her suck a dick? Do I want to watch her get a creampie? What if she doesn’t let me watch and just goes on a date and sends me videos of her date filling her with cum in the bathroom? Again, I came almost immediately.

She has mentioned to friends that she is free to do whatever she wants, with whoever she wants, just as long as I can watch or hear about it. But she has yet to pull the trigger on actually doing it. Should I keep nudging her, or stay patient? The idea of my wife taking whatever she wants whenever she wants it is the biggest turn on to me.