Fear of catching feelings with the bulls [ Hotwife’s perspective ]

When we first discussed that we are gonna do this there were few set of rules we had in place . We also discussed on what are our fears ,our kinks, our limitations etc…, One thing he mentioned it as his fear was that I would catch feelings with the guy i have sex with . He kept asking me like are you sure you’re not gonna catch feelings with the guy or guys u are gonna sleep with because as a human it is natural to develop feelings after having sex. I kept telling him no babe why am i gonna catch feelings with someone else when i am sure this is just physical pleasure for me to enjoy. I kept assuring him on many times before we started that no way there’s gonna be any feelings catched because it is just sex and nothing else.

Although not gonna lie I was kinda worried too that what if i catch feelings because after all i am gonna be naked and making love with these guys. Initially with the first few encounters i was sure that there’s no feelings but with some of my regulars i did started to like them and was restraining myself to develop more feelings with them …but in the end we all are humans and wired to develop some feelings for the people we sleep with because of the connection of naked bodies and naked souls…

After a while i did develop feelings for them whenever i made love with them when they do things to my body when i do things to theirs…I confessed to hubby alright i do accept that i am getting feelings with some of these guys i sleep with but its more of a result of physical chemistry we have together and nothing else ..I like them and love having sex with them and i can’t help but develop feelings for them ,after all i am naked with them and doing every kind of sexual and intimate act together…

I realised instead of fighting it i started to accept that’s how our emotions work when we get physical…one thing that helped me to hold myself up was the fact that i am able to enjoy all this because i am my hubby’s wife.. if not married to him i don’t think i would be doing any of this, in case if we get separated i don’t think i am gonna be in the lifestyle fucking other guys…. If he is not happy and wants me to stop i don’t think i will enjoy a single day of enjoying sex with others… so the feelings and love i have for him and him for me is the main reason i am able to enjoy this, we’re in this together till the end.

So, yess i do get feelings with certain guys i regularly sleep with , i don’t wanna fight that anymore and enjoy every minute of this lifestyle. I am naked with his cock inside me and him kissing me obviously its natural to get feelings so i accept that and enjoy that.. because i am secured and assured that none of these feelings matter more than hubby and our love…He was happy i explained everything to him and we both realised that without being with each other these sex and feelings with others mean squat..anyone similar to us or different in these feelings please do share ur opinions and your discussions.